Saturday, November 25, 2023

#givethanks Saturday November 25, 2023

 This is Saturday, and I with this post I have completed my 2023 #givethanks postings.  Thank you for being willing to read my sometimes-rambling entries.  They have come from my heart and reflect a portion of my nature.  I am grateful for a social media outlet for my words.  Thank you for your comments and I hope we can correspond regularly.

I hate to point it out, but at the beginning of this week I gave a list of things I am thankful for.  Alas, I didn’t get to cover all the topics because when I sat down to write some of the past 7 days my thoughts led me to write about something different.  I’ll have to cover the other neglected things in a future posting.  If you would like to talk about the ones I missed, or the viewpoints I did discuss, send me an email or post and I’ll join in.

Keep the faith, my beloved family and friends.  Do what you know is right, pray to Heavenly Father and get acquainted with the teachings of Jesus Christ, for doing so can lead you to true joy in your lifetime, even when bad things happen. I know this to be the truth and you can know it, too.  Please keep a spot in your hearts for me and for Pat, my dear wife.  We love you!

Don

Don and Pat Bahr
Christmas  time, 2022
(Notice the matching hair)

#givethanks Friday November 24, 2023

 A couple of random, semi-related things I wanted to address:

I am thankful for the people I interact with in my church calling.  Every week I arrange for members of my church to offer the invocation and benediction prayers in our worship service.  I often have to use email or leave voice mail in trying to reach the people I am inviting to offer the prayers.  Many times, people are happy to be able to pray in public and they readily accept the assignment.  I am grateful to these good people for doing so for it makes my job easier, and moreover, I love to hear their faithful prayers to the Almighty.  I also must make appointments on behalf of the bishopric counselors, and again many people faithfully accept the the appointment without reservation.  I am thankful for these good people! 

On another topic, many people I encounter see me as a senior citizen, which I am.  Most people have shown great kindness in their interactions with me and my wife!  To these good people I offer a hearty and heartfelt thank you for your kindness.

The past few years have brought to me several medical issues.  I’ve been diagnosed with Celiac disease and now must follow a gluten free diet.  Due to family experience with colon cancer, my doctor wants me to have regular colonoscopies.  I have been diagnosed to have Parkinson’s disease.  I am always avoiding the sun due to skin cancer.  These ailments, and others, have complicated my daily routine, as far as eating, going outside, and other previously enjoyed activities, but this is now my reality.  I am thankful to my doctors who have treated me for all these things.  Their compassion and kindness make living more bearable than it could be otherwise.  My caretaker (My wife) is truly a saint, and she is my reason for living.  Many, many thanks to these and other angels in my life are due and not often enough rendered.  In the future I will try to express my gratitude more readily.

Don

Thursday, November 23, 2023

#givethanks Thursday November 23, 2023

 Tonight I only have a brief amount of time to express my gratitude.  It’s almost 11 o’clock, the turkey has long since been devoured, and we’ve had a nice day – busy but nice!  I’m in my warm house, almost ready to retire to my warm bed and I must realize what a great life I have.  I am thankful for a wonderful wife who really can cook – I mean top notch capabilities.  I am thankful for my relatively good health (for my age) …  I can move on my own, I can do whatever moves me at any given moment.  I live in a great part of a great country.  I don’t have to fear for my life, and I have plenty of Love and plenty to love.  This sounds like bragging, but really, I am happy, content and very blessed. 

Happy Thanksgiving to all of you, my good friends.  May your lives be long, and your joy be full!


Don

Wednesday, November 22, 2023

#givethanks Wednesday November 22, 2023

 Today is the 60th anniversary of President John F. Kennedy being assassinated…  Are you old enough to remember it?  Where were you and what did you do?  I was 10 years old, attending 5th grade at Lehi Elementary school in Lehi, UT.  I remember being ushered into the cafeteria as a class where other classes were sitting watching the news on TVs set up for us to follow the events.  After an hour or so of that, we were dismissed for the day and had a couple of days off so we could watch the events from home.  Not sure if I was picked up by my Mom, or if I walked home that day.  I remember seeing people on TV in mourning, common people as well as celebrities and government leaders, Civic leaders and normal joes alike.  It was a sad and turbulent time, and ushered in the rest of the very turbulent Sixties.

As I look back through my 70 years of life, I realize that I witnessed many historical events in my lifetime.   I remember being scared by the Cuban missile crisis and the uncertainty of how it was handled by our leaders.  I remember watching the first man walk on the moon.  I recall the involvement of U.S. soldiers in Viet Nam, the frightening images of war that the news media blithely showed.  I saw the escalation of tempers over the 1968 presidential elections when Richard M Nixon was voted into office.  This was followed by later incidents in which Pres. Nixon was essentially drummed out of office.  I saw the long lines at the gas pumps when gasoline was being rationed.  These and other memories of that time surface from time to time, reminding me of where I come from.  I am grateful for these snapshots of history and the eventual man I became.  Thank God for memories of things I went through!

While thinking about what I just wrote, I realize that the message I conveyed may seem kind of bleak, and I didn’t necessarily have a bleak upbringing.  That whole time period, though, was ushered in by a most devastating family event.  My father, William Martin Bahr, was killed in a car accident on September 30, 1962.  I had just turned 9 years old a short 20 days earlier.  Because of this tragic loss, the events of the rest of the Sixties were seen through the lens of mourning by my family.  But my family rallied, some more than others, and life went on.  I think we were the recipients of many kindnesses and concerns by the neighbors, by the church we attended, by my mother’s parents and siblings, and to some degree by my father’s parents and siblings.  I am thankful for these ministrations, and I think they influenced my wellbeing. More importantly, they influenced my testimony of the Savior and Christian service.  I saw people offering Christ-like service in their gifts of love, sustenance, and other needful things.  Oh, how grateful I am for these acts of service by people who showed their love for Christ by their kind actions.  How I hope to be able to be there for someone in need like those who served my family.  May we each be a light to someone in pain or need.

Don

Tuesday, November 21, 2023

#givethanks Tuesday November 21, 2023

 Almost halfway through the week already!  Time speeds up the older you get, at least that’s my perception.  My Uncle Grant Mitchell tried to tell this to me and my cousin, Kerry.  Being pre-teens at the time, we listened respectfully and then went about our youngster business.  Having remembered that conversation I realize how right Uncle Grant was, and I’m thankful for his sage advice.  I pass it along to young people as opportunities arise.  I am grateful for the many people I’ve known in my life who have given me guidance and direction.  Not that I always did what they advised, but I appreciate the level of concern their guidance showed.  Many of these people have moved on from this earth life.  I thank them just the same for I believe I am molded in some special way by their love and concern.  Now, being on the old side of life’s scales, let me offer some direction.  Look at your life and single out something you would change if you could.  You can do it!  Don’t give up if it gets hard to do; failure only happens when you give up.  Attempts that don’t work are necessary steps that yielded important information. Evaluate that information and try again!

It's late in the afternoon and it has been sunny all day in South Jordan… a very pretty day indeed.  Leaves are leaving their trees, the sky is blue and the sun warm on my face.  It is beautiful to see and rewards my senses.  I have a great appreciation for the beauty of the earth.  This truly is a glorious planet!  The massive, stalwart ruggedness of the Rocky Mountains to the east, the stark melds of pastels in the desert to the west, the verdant green of woods in the hills and the patchwork of lawns in front of well-kept homes in the valleys are pleasing to the eye to behold.  Heavenly Father can really make a beautiful home for His children.  I am very thankful for the beauty of this place we call home!

Don

Monday, November 20, 2023

#givethanks Monday November 20, 2023

 It’s Monday night.  The TV is off, I can hear Pat at her desk doing something on her computer.  The cat just came in expecting to jump in my lap, but alas!  I had to turn him away.  It’s a typical evening at our house these days.  We are both retired, and our usual schedule is to continue doing things on our computers until bedtime…  sometime before midnight, usually.  What a great life I am leading right now.  I am thankful for my life and all the experiences I have, um, well… experienced.  I am sifting through my memories now, trying to think of a poignant or exciting, or impressive experience I’ve had.  I am happy to say that I do have some ideas, and I’ll try to be succinct in describing one or two.  They mostly turn around a split-second decision I made prior to the experience (although not all of them were immediately after making the decision). 

I worked in Salt Lake City at the Utah State Courts at 450 S. State St. for 13 ½ years.  I rode public transit for that entire time – a no-brainer of a decision since the train stopped a block from the courthouse.  Late one day, after a day of frustrating efforts on several projects, I suddenly had the idea that today was done, I might as well head for home and maybe tomorrow will work out better.  I grabbed my jacket and backpack and headed for the train station without saying goodbye or anything else to my co-workers.  I arrived at the train platform a few minutes later; the platform was pretty crowded with commuters.  I walked to the area where the train door would stop and looked around.  I could see the train was coming and was about a hundred yards or less away.  Then I noticed a man walking toward me who seemed to be weaving in his walk.  As the train approached, he stopped next to me, turned around and lost his balance, falling back toward the tracks and the oncoming train.  As the train began blaring its horn, I instinctively reached out and grabbed the man’s jacket, pulling him from the danger that was about to befall him.  It all happened so fast; I didn’t even think about it, I just acted.  The man didn’t seem to be fazed at all by what just happened, but I don’t think he was in his right mind.  He said to me thank you and then wandered off to who knows where.  I thought at that point how fortunate I was where I could do something about his plight.  God is the God of miracles, and I believe I was made to feel the way I did at the end of my workday a few minutes before I normally would have left the office because Heavenly Father knew what was going to happen. 

I have been guided from time to time in my life by the influence of the Holy Spirit.  I would like to say it happens daily, but I can confess that I haven’t perfected the knack of listening to the guidance that I am given.  There are times when the Holy Spirit speaks, and I know I must be getting heavenly messages.  It’s probably when He uses a spiritual sledgehammer to get through.  I tell you, though, that the messages always benefit my life spiritually or otherwise.  Pat and I have not hesitated when we have a decision to make if we both get the same feeling of correctness about the feelings.  Often, we think after making the decision “Are we being hasty?”   After discussion we realize that things will be OK.

I know that we mortals are constantly offered heavenly guidance, as well as comfort and heavenly love.  It is our gift from a loving Heavenly Father.  I urge you to say your prayers and then listen to heavenly responses.  Obey the guidance you are given.  I promise to do better at this myself.  When you have been guided by the Holy Spirit, take time to thank Heavenly Father for the gift!

I am thankful that I have been led by the Spirit at times.  I seek for more such events in my life.

Don

#givethanks Sunday, November 19, 2023

I am truly thankful for my life’s companions: My wife, my children, my parents and parents -in-law, my brothers and sisters- and brothers and sisters-in-laws (in both my wife’s siblings). Uncles, aunts, cousins from both sides of my family, and ancestors who have come and gone before me.  I learn almost daily why someone in this large group is important to my life and learn of relatives that I have that I know little about.  I am grateful for my Sister-in-law Marcia, who took a lot of information about my parents, grandparents and great grandparents and created a book with all the stories and details about their lives – the experiences and accomplishments of each.  I learned a lot about who I am and where I’ve come from because of this book.  If you would like to have a copy, contact me and I’ll tell you where you can get a copy.

My kids are grownups now with families of their own.  They make me proud!   You may already know that my grandkid pool grew this past year when our daughter, Christie, gave birth to a new baby girl.  She is now 6-month-old and is cute as she can be. All my grandkids are growing and doing well. Pat and I love them to pieces!

 

We don’t see our relatives often enough these days but be assured our hearts are filled with fondness and love for each of them.  Although we are both retired, getting around is increasingly difficult, so we have to limit our travel and hope to see each relation at family events.  Please know that our love burns bright for every one of you!  Our thanks go out to each member that I detailed above for the impact you’ve had on our lives!

Don

 #givethanks 2023 Introduction

This is the start of my Thankful Journal for 2023.  I’ve done this for the past three years and I have been uplifted by the experience.  Some of the topics have been reiterated in other years, that’s OK….  I am thankful for these on a daily basis apparently year after year.  This year, in this introduction, I am doing something for the first time:  I am giving you a look ahead at what I will be writing about this year. The following topics will be talked about during my #GiveThanks posts.

ü  The usual topics:  Wife, kids, grandkids, faith, Mom and Dad.

ü  Good decisions that I’ve made in the past.  Repentance and forgiveness for bad decisions.

ü  Friendships that have endured.

ü  Beauty of the earth.

ü  Wireless inventions: cell phone, tv, etc.

ü  Doctors and their Staffs and the way my body has responded to treatments.

ü  My Ward family.

ü  Faithful people who serve without hesitation or grumbling.

ü  A public forum where I can write and post my innermost thoughts and feelings.

ü  Friends in our past that we’ve lost track of or who have passed on to a different sphere.

ü  Callings and opportunities for acts of service.

ü  Temple.

Whew!  Sounds like a lot of writing (or reading).  I hope you read each one I’ve written and ponder the addressed topic in your lives.

Don